I am in a little of a pickle. The economy is bad right now…. with that being said… my boss has made sexual advances towards me and I wrote him an email and copied myself asking him to stop… or telling him it needs to stop.
My boss is Indian (from India) and his wife works there too. They both run the business. The wife is very timid and seems sad a lot. She seems to be a person of non-action…
Well yesterday I was standing around with some employees and the boss and he said in front of everyone that he wanted to take my ears and move my head up and down (blow job)…
I asked him in front of everyone if he talks to all the women like that – and that he is just kidding. He said he tells this one Indian woman that works there to jump up and down (boobs).
I really need this job. and we all know the economy is not good. It is a full-time permanent position which means I get the health insurance – which I really need.
I already talked to one person about it – and he said that there probably isnt much that I can do about it… it is a small company as well.
So – do I keep my mouth shut, do I send him another email, do I go to talk to someone else? I would talk to his wife but from what I gathered she doesn’t know how to stand up to him….
When I called him out on it in front of everyone he says he talks that way to his wife and she gets upset about it….
I know there is a place you can report it…. is there anyway to report it anonymously? I don’t want or can afford to leave my job at the moment. I might talk to someone else today – just to see what he says – he is one of the managers and is from India too – but he seems very nice and willing to listen.
I don’t want to make anyone uncomfortable but I have NEVER been treated this way…. and he brushes it off saying "I am only kidding, geez"
Help? Also – I know he is under a lot of stress…. he tells me life is short and he wants to live it up with women and whatever else …
he also told me that him and his wife have an understanding – whatever that means… they also have two kids together.
I could really screw this guy…. but I think that each time he says something like that to me – I can keep telling someone…. and not be a fanatic – but just see what they have to say about it.
He was touching me and repeatedly asks me out – but he stopped that after I wrote him an email about it. He asked me if he was being a good boy?????
And like I said – I need this job – I was out for three months before …. I am sure you know how it is….
I appreciate all your comments. Thank you!
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